Rachel Nabors ([info]crowhen) wrote,
@ 2009-04-10 12:16:00
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Jeans and a t-shirt?
They gave us Good Friday off from work. And I've decided to spend mine sitting in, you guessed it, a coffee shop. And I'm, you guessed it again, still working on sites. But this time, these are my own projects.

Increasingly, I'm having trouble with clothes. I've been replacing worn out articles with things that are appropriate work wear, but this also means my weekend wear isn't getting replaced. I'm down to a flimsy skirt and a pair of jeans. I can't help but think back to my mom, back when she was a systems analyst. She wore pretty suits all week long. What did she wear on the weekends? I don't remember! Mom, what did you wear on weekends? How did you balance your clothes?

I think I'll have to go to a Goodwill for some weekend clothes soon. Although it may be hard to find work-gear at Goodwill, for separates, it's much better than buying new.

A lot of people think "cheap" when they think of buying previously worn clothes, and while the prices are much lower, I feel the savings run much deeper.

Joe and I watched a Nova program the other night about frogs, specifically how they are mutating, disappearing, turning from male to female, and in general being wiped off the face of the planet. Of the many things that are assaulting these remarkable creatures, most of them come directly from us, through the water, the ground, the sky. Agriculture and lawn fertilizers, pesticides, even trace birth control hormones, these are all over our waterways, and they are harming the very bottom of the food chain in ways that, if we all could fully take in the scope of the problem, would cause us to curl up into little balls and cry.

There are many ways that we can be more responsible and prevent this sort of thing from happening. The root is population, there are simply too many people taking away too much habit. This is one of the reasons I cringe whenever I hear "habit for humanity." It makes me think, "Habitat for animals is not the same as habitat for humans." And we do need those animals. More humans also means more need for food, more production of pesticides to make that food (if only organic food cost less, but most people can only afford the stuff pumped out by Big Agra), more vehicles to move this stuff, more medications down the toilet and into the river, and more stress in general on the environment. So obviously encouraging family planning and standing by women's rights is one thing we can do. But there's no way that we can reduce the population significantly in a small period of time (100 years) short of mass genocide or nuclear war (both of which would have negative consequences that would probably just make things worse--not to mention I don't like the thought of either).

So, what can we do about the short term? Well, we can get petition our states to work on building waste processing stations that filter hormones and medications. We can start pressuring people with big lawns to plant gardens instead. (Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. If you can treat a person like a criminal for smoking, I don't see why you can't treat people with big lawns the same way. I know I do. It's my right to pass judgment on others. I'm an American!) Buy local organic, duh. And petition your state to pass laws that make farmers fence off large portions of waterways that run through livestock pens--something that makes a HUGE difference to water quality. If you raise animals, do this without being asked. If you live in an animal raising area, volunteer to do this for a farmer. (I want to do this when I go visit Mom in the mountains again.)

And lastly, you can buy used rather than new. Yeah, new and shiny is nice, and in some cases, especially when it comes to professional clothes, new is best. But everything you buy impacts the environment. With clothing, the dye has to be chemically manufactured, the cotton has to be sprayed with insecticides (this has resulted in poisoned rivers over in Asia), the clothing must be shipped, and hundreds of other environmentally taxing things must happen along the way.

Bonus points for visiting this site: http://www.storyofstuff.com/

I'm out of steam on this entry now, and I've really wandered all over the place. I must really love frogs.



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[info]tscheese
2009-04-10 05:51 pm UTC (link)
I wear sharp little jersey-knit or viscose or some-kinda-tough material skirts and dresses all week at a corporate office. (I don't even remember what it's like to find pants that fit. It's so heartbreaking these days.)

I've actually found that I just wear the dresses on weekends, too. They're a lot more comfortable and floaty than jeans, and I wear them with tights or leggings when it's cool out. I also feel really cute and put-together if I go out with friends. I dunno, I just like dresses. I don't know why I ever bothered with pants, which never fit me right.

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[info]crowhen
2009-04-10 06:10 pm UTC (link)
Agreed. I always prefer wearing a dress to wearing a pants. It's way easier to accessorize! In winter, I wear tights, in summer, stockings + a garter belt. (The garter variant lets air wisp around your thighs and keeps you dry and cool. To make using the bathroom easier, put your panties on AFTER the belt.)

I usually have worn all of my dresses at work by the time it comes.

My wardrobe needs help.

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[info]tscheese
2009-04-10 07:01 pm UTC (link)
Agh, my not-helpful idea has been to buy more dresses. I think I'm up to about 10.

I haven't touched a pair of jeans or trousers in months.

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[info]crowhen
2009-04-10 07:09 pm UTC (link)
No, that's helpful. Maybe I should give up on pants for now and just look for dresses at Goodwill. But, well-fitting dresses are harder for me to find second hand. Sometimes I can find pants, and a knit top tucked into pants always looks nice, but if the dress doesn't have room for my boobs and butt, I'll end up looking like I'm wearing a sack.

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[info]beezlefishy
2009-04-12 11:57 am UTC (link)
And this is why knowing how to sew, or having sewing machine-happy friends is a great thing. You can take those sack dresses and tailor them down, buy super reduced, slightly damaged items and fix them, and so on. It's a bit time consuming but... I might actually just be insane. I LOVE to sew. Half the time I go to goodwill, I'm just looking for something that would make for interesting material.

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[info]crowhen
2009-04-12 05:21 pm UTC (link)
It's great that you have the time and talent for that! (Alas, I don't possess either, meeps!)

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[info]thedalaimama
2009-04-11 02:02 am UTC (link)
Yer ma was also short on weekend clothes. My real clothes money had to go to officy suites and such. I had nice khaki based stuff to wear when skeet shooting and very little to just wear, at home or out. I never had jeans - couldn't get a good fit. It's still hard, but I've learned tricks to taking in ones that almost fit. I hadn't discovered Goodwill. It wasn't well developed at the time. Raiding Goodwill and huge sales is a good way to go. Fortunately, for off-work clothes, you can get very creative - skirts, tights, pants, baggy belted tops, whatever grabs your fancy. Ooooo, I want to shop with you. Come quickly, I just got strawberries.

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[info]thedalaimama
2009-04-11 02:10 am UTC (link)
And, yeah Sweetie, what a few of us know and the rest deny is that the human race has far exceeded the carrying capacity of this planet. We consume 2/3 of the biomass annually. We spew chemicals left and right and replace diverse ecosystems with concrete and grass. Ugh. Lawns are indeed an abomination. Don't even get me started on the environmental horror of lawn mowing.

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[info]sambucivox
2009-04-12 09:10 am UTC (link)
As a city dweller since I was born, please elaborate on lawn mowing...

I do not see the asthetic appeal of lawns; what is the point of devoting such a great space to plain grass when there could be trees and bushes, flowers and a veggie garden growing there? On the other hand, besides lying on top of it, there is very little that you can do with a lawn.

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[info]beezlefishy
2009-04-12 11:54 am UTC (link)
And lying on top of it is only nice when it's super soft, which isn't the case with most lawns. The stuff my dad put on our lawn (kentucky bluegrass) is really really scratchy. okay for walking on, but lying on it is the worst.

We actually wanted to plant clover, which enriches the soil and pretty much takes careof itself. and no mowing. But mom wouldn't let us. In fact, I don7t think the neighborhood board would let us, either. bah. No imagination, I tell you.

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[info]thedalaimama
2009-04-12 04:27 pm UTC (link)
On treehugger.com I found: Recently, a NASA-funded study, which used satellite data collected by the Department of Defense, determined that, including golf courses, lawns in the United States cover nearly fifty thousand square miles—an area roughly the size of New York State. The same study concluded that most of this New York State-size lawn was growing in places where turfgrass should never have been planted. In order to keep all the lawns in the country well irrigated, the author of the study calculated, it would take an astonishing two hundred gallons of water per person, per day. According to a separate estimate, by the Environmental Protection Agency, nearly a third of all residential water use in the United States currently goes toward landscaping.

This article didn't touch on lawn mowing. These machines have no emissions control. The average mower polutes as much in an hour as a automobile driven 20 miles. Not to mention, having land in grass instead of trees and bushes adds to greenhouse warming rather than subtracting.

I've met people who like having their acre or two of grass because they really enjoy that riding mower. Makes me want to weep.

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[info]crowhen
2009-04-12 05:25 pm UTC (link)
They are there for the following reasons:
1. To give the male of the family an excuse to buy a machine to ride around on.
2. To show off the front of the house.
3. To show off that the family can afford to spend so much time and money on something that actually serves no purpose.

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(Anonymous)
2009-04-13 03:52 am UTC (link)
you could try shopping online a store like torrid.com - they have great sales and clearance prices, even though their regular stuff is kind expensive. for example i was able to get $74.00 and $58.00 dresses for $9.00 apiece off the clearance section of their website. try looking at both their "on sale" and "clearance" selections to find the most deals. hope this helps! :)

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